I met Computer Science Guy (CS) a few months ago through CL. He had responded to an ad I made, but we had never met in person. It was only a few flirty emails or chats here and there. I knew he was really busy b/c he was getting his Masters in Computer Science so I thought that I was just an innocent flirtation to pass the time while he was finishing up the spring quarter.
Last night he and I made plans to meet up. I was supposed to meet him at a bar to get some drinks but I was having car issues so I couldn't get out there. I called him up to tell him about my car. I think he thought I was trying to cancel. I really wasn't but if he wanted to back out, the time was then and I wouldn't have really cared. I would have been happy with just going to bed early.
CS decided to come over and get me at my place. I didn't care that much that he knew where I lived. I didn't get a creepy/stalker/psycho vibe from him. We went to a brewery near to where I live and got some dinner. We talked and got to know one another a little better. Things seemed to be going well. There were moments where he would just look at me. I didn't know if I had something on my face or just looking at the view. But I think it was the latter. LOL I admit, it was cute.
He took me home and I invited him inside. We went into my room to watch some tv and just chill. My roommate and his gf were in the living room and I didn't want to do the whole introducing thing. We were sitting on my bed watching tv and he leaned in to kiss me. He's a good kisser, but he had some stubble on his face and it was really really scratchy. I had to deal.
Later things got more intense. Clothes were coming off and it was hot. I also had a lot of pent up sexual frustration so I was getting more into the moment. We started to have sex and it was pretty good. He was one of those guys who likes to kiss while having sex. Personally, I think both actions are slightly awkward to do but it was fine. As he was finished, I felt something wrong. I knew the condom broke. I told him what I thought and I was right. I went to the shower hoping that I could wash it away LOL but I knew I had to go to the pharm in the morning.
With most people, I would have wanted them to leave right away after this. But for some reason, I didn't want him to go. Instead, we cuddled and messed around some more. I felt so comfortable and strangely safe around him. So we ended up having sex two more times last night, but he did the pull out method. (I know totally unsafe on all accounts. You can scorn me now. I deserve it.) I don't know what came over me. We ended up cuddling and then falling asleep. I then wake up suddenly to a bloody nose. No, he didn't punch me. My allergies have been really bad but it was annoying.
I woke up this morning to me still wanting to cuddle with him so I moved closer. I think he was awake and wrapped his arms around me. Normally, I would have wanted a guy not cuddle with me. But this morning, it was nice to wake up next to someone. We ended up having sex again. Morning sex can be fun or awkward and thankfully this one was fun. I then got up, showered and got ready for work.
As we were leaving my place, I told him I would go to the pham during my lunch break. He surprised me and took out his wallet to give me some money to go to the pharm. He felt really bad about the condom that broke and then all the unprotected sex afterwards that he offered to pay for Plan B and reassured me that he didn't have any STDs. I hope he doesn't but the gesture to pay was sweet. I told him he didn't need to, but he put the money in my hand and we walked out the door.
Overall, meeting CS wasn't a bad thing. He's super sweet and I could honestly say I could see myself with a guy like him down the road. But here's the catch, he's moving to Los Angeles for an internship/job he got through his Masters program. So I don't see that working out. But maybe we will see one another again before he leave. I'm extremely tired and rightfully so. But I have to head off to the pharm to get Plan B.